I wonder what it would look like if it was 'working' anyway? Truth be told, this could be different for everyone. Perhaps it's the outcome you've become wed to that is unachievable. Let me help you shift some perspectives and give some honest insight into what you can realistically expect.

It doesn't matter whether this is your first child, your third or even your sixth child; tantrums don't tend to get any easier to experience.

 😫 You may have been chugging along on the tantrum train or a long time now and have realised that it doesn't have to feel this hard.

😫 Perhaps you vowed never to be that 'yelly' parent but, you continue to live life on the brink of dysregulation and the ridiculousness of some of these tantrums has you pushed over the edge.

😫 You find yourself wondering if you're saying the right thing, if you should really go away when they tell you to, how the heck to set boundaries when they're behaving like a banshee.

😫 You've felt the burning eyes of others and heard their condescending commentary about the way that you're responding but you lack the confidence to tell them what your approach is and why.

The experiences from your own childhood are ringing alarm bells and you know that you want to do differently so that your kids don't ever have to feel how you did. Trying to tread a different path is impossible when you do know where you're going.

Whether you're approaching toddlerhood, in the thick of toddlerhood, experiencing it again, haven't outgrown it yet or you haven't quite got there, this is for you!